It’s been a rough journey exposing all the inconsistencies and abuses by the nonprofits in the world of mesh. At the end of the day… it’s also all worth it. I started doing this… ironically because of Aaron Horton and her wacky way of making mesh women look like crazy women. It was so disrespectful… and disturbing that someone who said she wanted to help… would go to such lengths to do the exact opposite in her quest for fame. Or whatever it was she was out to accomplish.
So began my investigation… inadvertently… pissing off everyone in the process. I had the best of intentions when I began… to try and take mesh off the market and help women do this. That… was sidetracked very quickly when women preferred to focus on bringing up all their concerns of nonprofits they suspected were not helping anyone. I asked questions women wanted answers to… and found how quickly one person could be banned from pages for asking questions people did not want to answer. I also found many women I had to ban off my page… such fervent supporters of Jane & company. She really is the ultimate manipulator. When I can lay out evidence… and women still believe in someone… that is not loyalty… that is an unwillingness to take off the rose-colored glasses… and see the truth for what it is. I understand why some women still to this day do not want to see the ugly side of Jane… because it is unpleasant when you do.
TVT-No… has closed their website and I’m assuming their nonprofit is no more. They say it’s due to “circumstances beyond their control” and I’m pretty sure the right people must have asked the right questions… that they did not have the right answers to. Dirty nonprofits… need to go. They need to close shop and be gone. It’s wrong to take money from injured women and give nothing in return. It’s wrong to refer to your vehicle as the “TVT-No mobile”… so good riddance to bad rubbish. For all the others out to profit from the misfortunes of others… your time is limited. Women are wising up… and you do not have long to make a choice to find another line of work.
It’s tough being injured by mesh. It’s tough being a family member of a mesh injured person. Life… is not easy… and we must make the best of a bad situation. There are so many generous people out there… who do not have money to give and yet give they do. Please take my advice… put yourself first. Put your own needs first. Charity starts at home. Especially when you do not have anything to give. If you are more fortunate and have extra that you feel you want to “pay it forward”… choose wisely. Investigate thoroughly. Watch carefully… what organizations do. Actions speak so much louder than words. You can ask questions… and people can lie straight to your face. Watch what they do… and it will show you the truth more than words can ever say. Sometimes this takes time… and if you want to donate something to anyone… take that time. There are good people and good causes out there. You just have to choose carefully.
These days I’m trying to pay it forward. Doing something… that is greater than myself. To leave something behind that will last far beyond the limited time I have on this planet. Anything worth anything… is not built overnight. It will take time… but I have time. I don’t have children… and you can’t take it with you… so I’m going to leave a legacy that will live on. For everyone lost in the land of mesh… think about what you want to leave behind. Think about what you want to do not just today… but what it is you can do now that your life has changed. There is always something you can do… you just have to find it. Although mesh is a terrible life sentence with physical consequences for most who have been damaged by it… stop seeing this as an end. It has to be a beginning… maybe not the beginning you wanted or planned. Mourn your past life… and start planning for your new life. Return to the land of the living… find a life outside of mesh. Find your passion… your purpose… and life will begin again for you in a new way.
I hope everyone will move on… and not join the new “group” TVT-No founders are transitioning to. It won’t be long before CAN of crap is gone along with Jane… moving on to hip or knee implants or some other tragedy in human suffering. If we’re lucky… really really lucky… the FBI will be looking closely at Corporate Action Network. I don’t see how a nonprofit can be formed from union money… from people’s union funds and retirement money… and go unnoticed. There is something very very wrong there. I’ll keep a watch out… you never know just when things will change.
It just takes time… and we all have time.